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Thursday, December 9, 2010

Become “the Bigger Line”.....

When I was a kid, once I came across a puzzle. It was asked to draw a vertical line of 4 cm., on a black board with chalk. Now without cutting or rubbing this line, it was supposed to be made small.
How?
Yes, many of us might be thinking, what a simple puzzle!
The answer is simple, we can make this line smaller by drawing bigger line besides it.
So, now we have this solution with us. Have we ever given a thought on this puzzle? What it actually means or do we get any message from this one?
Well, friends today morning when I woke up, don't know from some corner of my brain came this puzzle in my mind and I started thinking.
I got one message.
In our life we have some foes, some fr-enemies, some enemies, some back-stabbers etc. etc. Whenever we come across such people and are hurt by them, we wish to teach them some lesson. We wish to revenge. Isn't that true?
Well, I am not gonna preach here and bore you with philosophy to forgive such people and leave it to GOD take action against them etc. etc.
No No No No.....in fact I would suggest to teach them the toughest lesson, take your revenge fully but indirectly.
How?
Become so big in your life, dear friends, that our these opponents become very small and become jealous with us.
The first and foremost thing is prepare a very good plan to become very big in your life.
Plan for what you want in life? What you wish to become? Plan for everything except taking direct revenge on these opponents.
Sounds philosophical....may be but it's the best way, I believe.
You plan and concentrate on what you want; may be a very big bungalow, or a limousine or particular no. of million dollars or anything it might be.
You don't boil your blood with the thought of revenge and waste your time and actually fulfill your revenge by becoming “the bigger line”.
Well, I would recommend to make much wider and bigger plan about your life. The bigger you become in life the smaller your opponents become.
Just think, (names and incident in this example are fictional) John is colleague of Ronnie. John is very bad person. He insults Ronnie always and doesn't let him speak a single word. John has lot of friends in organization who are his alike. All of them together have made Ronnie's life a hell in the office.
Ronnie is very timid and straight forward, simple person and not able to concentrate on his work because of the harassment he is suffering.
What should Ronnie do?
Well, Ronnie boils his blood by worrying over how to take revenge on John and company. And actually never succeeds in doing this and more and more he lands himself in trouble and gets more frustrated. (Does this story sounds similar somewhere with most of us?) But that's what John and his cartel want.
What's the use of Ronnie's worrying or being anxious?
Nothing.
Instead, Ronnie chooses to concentrate on his work and to grow in the organization. Suppose, John is so big in organization that Ronnie's life has become hell there and John may interfere with Ronnie's growth in the organization. In this scenario Ronnie decides to quit the organization and join some other organization and obviously gets better pay than what he gets in former one. At this point itself John and his cartel will be jealous of Ronnie and will be totally helpless. At this particular juncture itself Ronnie is happy, John and his cartel is total misery and shock. Isn't it?
Further suppose Ronnie buys a very big apartment in posh locality or Ronnie buys a nice car and somehow makes this news reach to John and cartel.
Tell me friends who is gonna boil more and more blood and who will be happier?
Our friend Ronnie or John and Cartel.
Solution is simple, Become “the Bigger Line”.
It is bit difficult but much better and works fantastic.
Try it out and let's see........

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