Programming our mind....

Today morning in office I was trying to crack logic for some program with my collegue.
He said repeatedly "Hey, my SQL knowledge is very poor. I can't do this". We are working on this particular program since last week and he said this statement at least 5 times. I just asked him, "Do you have some kinda dislike for SQL or seriously you find it difficult."
He replied, "I seriously find it difficult, although I wish I should handle it with ease."
I asked him then why are you repeatedly saying that It's difficult and you can't handle it, this way you are programming your mind that you can't work with it and it's difficult.
He agreed.

There was one of my friends( now we are not friends due to some prob.s we had), he has habit of complaining about every person he meets.
Let it be a peon, a clerk, an accounts officer, an HR person, his neighbors, boss, colleagues every damn person he encounters he has problem with them. God knows Y?????
And he will try to convince you how so and so person is bad and selfish and against you.
Now this person- my no more friend- I realized about him with time that he himself is like that and keeps thinking about his own self interests only that's the way he looks towards his life........and others.....

Hey friends our thoughts are very much important....the way we think we create our world.
That's what my experience is life.

I have experimented certain things. Many a times I decide to concentrate on something say I want to learn dancing....then I start thinking about that day and night....with full excitement and deliberately.
My observation is that soon I get chance to learn dance....I get more knowledge about different types of dances. If I am not specific about which dance I wish to learn then I just get chance to learn any dance.
If I am specific about which dance I wish to learn then definitely I get chance to learn that only.
May be some testing moments will be there to check my determination but folks it's me after all who wants to learn dance.
We need to identify such testing moments that's very much important.
Try using these things and let's see......

Bit away from the Blog.....

Hi friends .....

I just started blogging and then all of a sudden I took break.....
Well, but then I am back just to keep my blog running....these few lines here.
I need to write and wish to write more and more on my blog but then some times
office work is not allowing.......after all ROZIROTI ka sawal bhi toh hai......
Well......Let's see.......

Bit away from the Blog.....

Hi friends .....

I just started blogging and then all of a sudden I took break.....
Well, but then I am back just to keep my blog running....these few lines here.
I need to write and wish to write more and more on my blog but then some times
office work is not allowing.......after all ROZIROTI ka sawal bhi toh hai......
Well......Let's see.......

Wake Up India....

Almost three years back I was working in Nasik. Every weekend I used to travel back to Ulhasnagar and then on Monday morning to Nasik. On Saturday evening I used to get taxi or ST bus to Kasara and then board into local train for CST. I observed certain things those days. Many families, all men, women, younger kids (as young as 5-6yrs old) used to fill every possible pot/utensil with water from Kasara station wash basins.  Then as train used to come they used to board inside it and get down 1 or two stations later. I asked once to one chap of around 9-10 yrs of age. He told me that this was their everyday business. They were staying in village next few stations to Kasara(towards Mumbai). I never saw light when they got down from train at their destination. I was astonished to see that regularly. Every Kasara train has gap of 1 hr - 1.5 hrs. Can we even imagine such life. If just one day we don't have water through our tap....what a havoc we face. Just imagine one day without bath...forget no water for latrine one complete day unless you get it from some 200 mtrs. distance.....hey so difficult. And here these people were getting it few stations away that also trains were having such a big gap in between.........
Another story.......
After leaving my Nasik job I got job in Mumbai and office quarter also. I have bike and I get thrill riding it on highway so I prefer to visit my home at Ulhasnagar  on bike on week ends. (Now a days I have stopped doing this because of some personal reasons and anyways I don't get time every weekend now to visit home)Every saturday evening I used to ride on bike to Ulhasnagar from Mumbai. After crossing Thane city on Mumbai-Agra highway there is one big cross (a junction at Mankavali), there I have always observed lots of people standing waiting for some transportation and most of them are asking for lift. I used to give lift to someone most of the time. And then used to chat with that person for some time. I came to know that these people work there in some industry or so and they stay very far off. They need to travel to Kalyan station which is around 30 kms. from this cross and then catch train to their home. I always wonder how these people must be managing there life. Well I have one question always in my mind why there is no transportation for these people? (Atleast till Kalyan Naka).......

Well guys, I guess this much of it is enough to wake up all of us from deep slumber in which we are just aware of IPL, Reality Shows(Where everyone is trying to be best Singer, Best Musician, Best Dancer etc. etc.).........when are we going to make our self strong enough by doing everyday exercise and meditation and going to think about our country and countrymen. Making our country stronger by our deeds and putting efforts on Nation Building........
Wake up India is all I want to say.....what happens lets see....

THE BATTLE OF LIFE....The poem I wrote in my Engineering College days......

Life is the battle
which don't expect to settle
You'll be stabbed from any side
From which, you can't at all decide
Life you've to fight
till success is in sight
Every success is a test,
which you've to fight next,
next time success, you may not find it
Just forget that & just don't mind it
'cause again who doesn't try
will definitely has to cry
Life is a battle of it's own kind
Just use your brain here and not at all a mind
The day you'll lose your heart
The success will shift far apart
"No Mercy" is the only law
else enemy will raise his claw
Someday you may be nailed
But don't think you failed
Lesson must be learnt from it
without uttering a single "BULLSHIT"
You may find in it, troughs and crests
but fight life dear without rests
Winning life completely, the moment is rare
You just have to fight & not to care
You may be thrashed & feel to whine
But you must always smirk and your face must always shine
Everynight, everyday, restless fight is the only way
"I've won in LIFE" if you wanna say

© Copyright Ranjan Bhavsar

Doing things which you like....

Hi friends,

Many times it becomes very difficult for all of us to get time for our interests and hobbies.
We keep on doing our routine activities and we get bored. We desperately try to do things which we like and eventually we end up thinking....hey I can't do this......or complaining......Hey I don't have time.......
What's the solution to this?
I wish to share some experience.
Think whenever you are traveling or doing things like walking somewhere....doing something which needs very less concentration and anyways your mind is wandering....waiting for someone....standing in a Que waiting for ur turn.....
These are the most ideal situations when you can think about yourself.....about what you like? What is left that you wanted to learn desperately but was not getting time?
Think and immediately write on a piece of paper (Behind some old ticket in ur pocket, some useless piece of paper we forgot to remove from our pocket/purse...take it out) that you are gonna pursue this thing/hobby/interest and gonna learn it anyhow within so many days.
Well your work is done.....now rest is gonna happen automatically....
May be your wish will not come true in the said time period but guys It's my experience that may be after few more days we get a chance and we start doing things we like........
That's how I and my wife learnt and started swimming almost a month back.
TRY THIS FOR SURE and let's see.....

How nice to have your own blog.....

It's such a nice feeling to have your own blog.
A place where you can express yourself to world.
Whatever you think you can post.
It's such a good thing. Well, it's difficult to express your thoughts into words...but then it's needed....it helps improve your state of mind.
It's not possible for everyone that he or she should start a blog and start writing whatever comes to mind the way I m doing probably, but well then you need to do something like that.......hmmmmm
Again I am just scribbling something this n that....well well well
What m gonna put on this blog is
About Martial Arts(My Experience)
Kickboxing
Reading Stuff
Yoga
Faith
Reiki
Meditation(different kinda)
Movies
IT stuff
Life
Some Freaky stuff
well let's c what more......

Hello World!!!

Hey Guys.....Hi everybody....
This is Ranjan L. Bhavsar.
I started my blog with heading HELLO WORLD; you know y.....'cause that's the first program every programmer writes in his school days or learning days....every software language book has first program...HELLO WORLD....so I thought y shudn't I start my blog with the same HELLO WORLD.....

Bit intro about my self....
I am working in IT industry just like many families in India has at least one person working into IT.
I have lotsa hobbies....mmmm......Reading, Martial Arts, Meditation.....wait wait wait...please don't think that
M some kinda serious person....no no no....m just another guy....like everyone.....who walks on streets....goes to market after office for Vegetables, Grocery etc. etc.
Hey then whatsa great m gonna put on this blog......yeps....as I mentioned MY EXPERIMENTS WITH MY LIFE....may be someone will get something....some people may get inspired....some may get entertained....well GOD knows....

I am just another GUY with no just another qualities.....well let's see....